Thank you. I apreciate all of the support I have gotten here. It has given me someplace where I could go and get some badly needed feedback.

H has left for the night and I am still processing a bit, but I think everything went well. I stuck to my plan. H got off work early and was already cooking dinner when I got home. It never seemed like a good time to ask about the therapist appointment, so I didn't.

One comment H made that caught my attention was that he was upset that he wouldn't be able to come over much in the next couple weeks because of the restaurant getting ready to open. Every other time he has expressed regret it was that he doesn't get to spend as much time as he wants with our daughter, but this time it was about being at our home.

This is a big change considering that not long ago he wouldn't even say helo to me when I called to tell our D goodnight when she stayed overnight with him!