If you claim to lover her that much then show your love by giving her what she wants...life without you.
Otherwise, what's the point of persuing somebody that doesnt want you?
Justify it all you want but IMHO you are making a misake and at the very least wasting your time better spent with somebody that actually will recipricate.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me