My XW was the same way. Said she would never speak to her own mother again because I went to visit her and spent the day with her etc. Pfft whatever Drama Queen!
Her Mom was a strict Catholic so she did not approve of my XW's baseless divorce and online affair. Imagine that?
I now wonder if I will be taking my XW's place at her Mom's funeral as her mother is getting up there in age.
I will never understand what the hell is wrong with these walk away wives. I just wish reality would slap them upside their heads sometimes.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
XW never ceases to amaze me with her disconnection from me. She sent me this text last night,
"I have thought about what you texted to me a few weeks ago...I can answer questions that you might have about the guy that I am dating. Any time:)"
She put an F'ing smiley face at the end??? WTF?? I thought about it for a few minutes and sent this,
"In our daughters eyes, you are replacing their Dad when you introduce other men to them. I wish you would start to realise the damage that you have done to their lives."
She writes back,
"I have been very clear and will continue to be that YOU are their Dad. No one else. It is unrealistic to think that either of us will live the rest of our lives without a relationship."
That really p1ssed me off so I sent this reply,
"That is a joke! You were trying to f@ck (real name of EA guy) while we were still married! Nothing slowing you down now!lol"
So there you have it folks, I am a DB failure!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
No, you're not a failure. You just let your emotions get the best of you in your response.
Don't write back to her now. If she writes back, ignore it unless it has to do w/ co-parenting.
She prob meant no harm by her intial text but these WAS' don't seem to get that they are hurting the LBS even more w/ their smiley faces and "above it all" attitudes.
"In our daughters eyes, you are replacing their Dad when you introduce other men to them. I wish you would start to realise the damage that you have done to their lives."
How did she do that? Did she introduce the guy as their new dad? Is it someone she just met and brought home? I don't remember the back story (sorry)... Her response was actually pretty factual, about you both having new relationships someday.
Donna, she could not have been dating him for more than a couple months and she is already telling our kids about him. That is reckless to me considering her past dating habits. If I came off as angry, I am. If I came off hurt, I am. There is no reason for me to be quiet about this anymore. I held my tongue for 18 months because I did not want to rock the boat. She must have mistaken me for her friend and I don't want to be her friend.
I may post this stuff on here to vent but I am in no way looking for advice on how to handle her. It took a long time for the pre-marriage V1olin to come back and I like him!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
