In the process

[flowmom]

Newmama, as I said before sometimes they don't actually want to pin themselves down one way or another because they are dating someone else but they want to be able to have you in the loop in case that doesn't work out. They don't contact because they are otherwise preoccupied and let's face it most of us don't really like juggling that much. Your "closure email" involves some mindreading...try to avoid that. It works even less well with people who you've never met . But I hear ya...believe me I hear ya.