Do you see how OM does not chase her and she pursues him? That is why the H needs to back away from his WAW.
When snooping gets to the place it is controlling your life and keeps you upset, then you need to stop. Be careful that you don't accidently let something slip when talking to her that would alert her as to how you got your information.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
