are you suggesting pin Stay in the house and continue DBing?
I think that is the more ideal of the choices.
But if she wants him out and he has agreed...IDK
It is certainly easier to show her changes and validate. Also harder to remain detached.
Pin is there some way to communicate that it is not your preference to move out? Without sounding controlling or manipulative?
Remove all your conditions, and see if you can't keep doing what just worked for you?
I think it is really important that you keep showing the new Pin that she started responding to.
She wants you out because she feels pressure.
I asked her point blank if she wanted to divorce me. She was clear in her no. Then I said that I think separation is a bad idea, better suited for dissolving a marriage gradually than in trying to repair it. She said she felt like I was flip flopping, making her into a yoyo.
I don't think I can convince her that one of us doesn't need to move out. I might be able to convince her that it's best if she is the one to move out, but I don't have any compelling arguments except "You're the unhappy one! nanny nanny boo boo." And she'll be very, very resistant, as she's shown in the past.
