Coach is right. The hardest part in this for me has been listening to my W. My want to yell "you cheated on me"!! But I have to listen to why she had to leave our marriage. It was not OG, it was me. OG was result of her escpape plan. Her S said he was a loser and it looks like she realized that. But since I have listened to her and validated how she felt (before I would Say "how can you think that, Oh thats not right, I did'nt MAKE you feel that way), I just listened and did not defend. Agreed we could communicate better and agreed with her decision to move out. Over the weeks she has come closer and closer.
PIN you have nothing to lose by sticking it out a little longer. Life is short.
