There is nothing controlling about having healthy boundaries. It's not like the other person doesn't have a choice.

Person A: "Oh yeah, well you are an idiot".

Person B: "Name calling is verbal abuse, and it's wrong"

Person A: "Oh yeah, well you are still an idiot".

Person B: <turns and leaves room>

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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