Hi SoA! Happy to hear the mail stuff is getting sorted out. What are your plans for tonight? =) I'm a bit under the weather here with a cold, so probably watch the World Series and some housework.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
Hi SoA! Happy to hear the mail stuff is getting sorted out. What are your plans for tonight? =) I'm a bit under the weather here with a cold, so probably watch the World Series and some housework.
Plans for tonight...reading my new Self Esteem book. Having dinner with my temporary roomie. Laundry. Paint my nails.
Laundry, Me too. Some men are very stubborn SOA. Only a man that is truly in touch with himself and looks at life reflectively can forgive his spouse for any transgression. I forgive my W because we all make mistakes and do desperate things. But I also do becuase I am in a differnt place in my life. I have no times for grudges and vendettas. Do I want my W to beg for foregivness from me? No, she has to sk God for that. Hopefully your H will see it that way!!
Laundry, Me too. Some men are very stubborn SOA. Only a man that is truly in touch with himself and looks at life reflectively can forgive his spouse for any transgression. I forgive my W because we all make mistakes and do desperate things. But I also do becuase I am in a differnt place in my life. I have no times for grudges and vendettas. Do I want my W to beg for foregivness from me? No, she has to sk God for that. Hopefully your H will see it that way!!
I sure hope so. I've been begging God to forgive me. Thanks Rondo.
So stop begging and listen quietly for the answer. Bet the answer is right in front of you once you look.
You are forgiven, you are loved and you matter. Never forget that.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Thanks Coach. You are right. I think I have gotten God's reply. I'm getting more support than I ever would have imagined. My friends are my husband's friends as well and I thought they would have dropped me like a hot potato. Instead I get more love than I feel like I deserve.
Thanks Coach. You are right. I think I have gotten God's reply. I'm getting more support than I ever would have imagined. My friends are my husband's friends as well and I thought they would have dropped me like a hot potato. Instead I get more love than I feel like I deserve.
