Now I'm Walking Away, Part 4

[Coach]

I think that a lot of us women do this because talking is how we process what we're thinking and feeling. Often I'm not sure of my own feelings and thoughts until I can talk them out with my H or a friend.

Every man on here would be well served to understand this. How does it apply to your interactions with women? How big a role is talking in her decision making? How can a woman be unsure of her feelings yet dish them out like candy at Halloween? How can feeling and thinking be part of the same process? This is part of the "testing" that goes on that is not intentional, it just happens and you better be aware of how it works.

Women lead with their feelings when they are unsure, it's what they are comfortable doing - it works for them. It makes them feel close to whoever is listening to them and providing support to her when she is unsure. Women know their feelings aren't stable that's why they need a man to stand up to their feelings and validate them at the right times.

It's very connecting for a woman, to feel that assistance coming from her H.

Create the connections boys, it matters.