I agree here Pin. It was too late when my 1st marraige ended becuase I did not listen to her and she was very angry. I tried like hell and got no response. Sounds like your getting something here and its very hard (I know) to validate by phone. Can you say its a money thing or your concerned about the girls at this time and the signal it would send to them. And than could you encourage her to spread her wings a little?
