Hi Pinhead, sorry to jump in with a relatively unrelated question but something caught my eye between your last thread and this one. Wanted to ask you about it in case reflecting on it might help you as you go forward.

You said:
I called her up to talk about her email. Probably validated the best I have. She really was happier at the end of the 30 minute call.

So, in the spirit of the DB 'do what works' theory... what was going on for you when you called her and validated so well? You said that prior to this you hadn't been validating very well for about a month. So that's a shift.

What do you think enabled you to do that? Mindset? Did something else happen you haven't mentioned?

I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.