I know how they view it now coach. I learned alot yesterday. I have grown enough to walk away, even though I could have stayed and beat the crap out of the OM. My first instinct was to remove myself from the situation. I have grown from this experience so far. I will continue to improve myself.
My wife sent me a text asking to talk tonight, I told her if she was still living and communicating with the OM then there was nothing to talk about. I havent heard back. I will stand firm on this. She will get nothing other than a hello and a goodbye when she picks up and drops off the kids.
Its taken me a long time, but i think i am on the right track. I need to respect myself before anyone else will.
