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Originally Posted By: gutwrenching
A new job is something I think you should really pursue. Besides the health benefits and reasons you are thinking of, it will present great opportunities for new friends, new goals, new projects...excitement.

We are all pulling for you...you can do this...this new position sounds like a win-win situation


Thanks. This means a lot.

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Originally Posted By: So Ashamed
Haven't found a new IC yet. Haven't had the money to cough up the $300 for the initial consult for the one I wanted to see.

Zowie. That's expensive. And I thought mine was pricey! Well, good luck getting the new job - I agree with GW... you can do this... you have our support!


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SoA,

I know it's hard right now. But today is just today. One day you'll look back, shake your head at your mistakes, and wonder how you made such bad decisions. And how different that person was from the person you are.

I'm rooting for you. You can do this, you can handle this and grow.

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I look forward to the day when you change your handle to "So Confident" smile

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SoA,

I know it's hard right now. But today is just today. One day you'll look back, shake your head at your mistakes, and wonder how you made such bad decisions. And how different that person was from the person you are.

I'm rooting for you. You can do this, you can handle this and grow.


I'm already doing this. frown

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Originally Posted By: ArnieBGood
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I look forward to the day when you change your handle to "So Confident" smile


Me too Arnie. Thanks.

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SoA,

I know it's hard right now. But today is just today. One day you'll look back, shake your head at your mistakes, and wonder how you made such bad decisions. And how different that person was from the person you are.

I'm rooting for you. You can do this, you can handle this and grow.



Then you're making progress! Chin up!
I'm already doing this. frown

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Still trying to find a new IC. Friend called her counselor (the one that charges a $300) to see if he would be willing to lower that fee to some degree. If that doesn't work, I have the phone number of another IC but she's over an hour away.

Anxiety is high. Still wish my husband would call, text, email, something. Anything. I can't sleep at night. It sucks.

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H changed his mailing address with USPS, which is fine, but it stopped my mail too. Was that intentional? I filled out the slip that I found in my mailbox (new residents, please fill out this form, etc) Going to the post office today to find out what happens to my mail that was already forwarded to him.

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Stopping my mail was a post office mistake. Not something he did intentionally. Darn, I needed another reason to be mad at him. smirk

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