Originally Posted By: futureunknown
One piece of advice. Do NOT compromise your position in the divorce in the hopes it will put you in a better position to reconcile at some later time


I guess that was my question. Yes, that's pretty much my thinking too. Thanks again Future. I think she might see it as me being nasty and vindictive but that's not it at all...like you said, it's just business. As I told her before, I can separate the business of D from the R. I could still go through this D process and want to keep the door open for the R.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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