My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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It's so easy to say "do it for you" and "don't worry about her", but the truth is that there are things that I DO need to change for me and I AM changing for me, but that doesn't change the fact that I really WANT my wife back, I deeply love my wife and my ultimate goal is for her to want to come back to me.

If I fail, so be it; but I will not and cannot just say I don't care about that. AND I WILL NOT GIVE UP.