Looking for help with WAW - 2

[mza8]

Coach, just wanted to ask your opinion of what to do now? This D info is still sort of raw in my mind right now and I'm faced with many decisions to make/how to proceed. I have options but not sure which road to take. Does it matter how I decide to handle this? Does it make a difference with W down the road?

W had asked me before to meet with her L and her to discuss S agreement. I never did. Now that she filed I'm thinking of calling W and seeing if she wants to meet (just her and I, no lawyers) to discuss division of things, etc. and see what she wants and tell her what I want with division. Not sure how that would go though. We really don't have much to divide and don't really need a L to do so.

The reason I ask this is because if how I handle this might leave things on a positive note then who knows what might happen with W and I down the road. If it really doesn't matter then I could go a different way. Hope I didn't confuse you the way I asked this but I think you'll understand what I'm trying to say. She has said to me several times that she doesn't know how she might feel down the road. If there's any truth to that then it could change how I handle this D. So many other questions for me about how long, if I'll even want it then, etc. etc...but one thing at a time. I need to focus on handling this issue for now. I'm just a little confused right now how to handle this D. Thanks.