My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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So W and I had a small miscommunication today regarding the kids. I thought I was picking them up and she thought she was. No biggie, but I sent her a TM today asking what time she was getting home because I was making plans. She thought I meant with the kids and called me because she didn't want me taking the kids every night and her not getting time with them. Cool, no problem. I said "no, I'm making plans for ME for after you got the kids" to which she replied "oh, I'm picking them up". Ok cool. No biggie.

Got a TM back from her about 20 min later "didn't mean to misinterpret - glad you're getting out".

One more small point for me....I just wish I knew if I was down 800 to 3 or if it's a close game....also wish I knew how much time was on the clock.

Really hard when you're trying to "win the race" but don't know if you're closing or losing ground, or how long the race is.