It was about drinking. She has been very good in a past few months and I totally screwed up my delivery. She went to a whole day golf outing about hour drive away from home.
She told me in the morning that she may crash at the hotel nearby instead of driving back home. I told her that it's a good idea to be safe.
For some reason it urked me later. When she texted later last night to confirm that she was not driving back I should have thanked her for being responsible.
Instead I went against my own advice and typed up a text and hit the send button before getting up and taking a break.
I said "You made a right choice for staying over but I don't like when you get so wasted from a day of golfing that you can't drive 50 miles back home."
She called me at work this morning and very politely told me not to say that again and that she has been very good and working on getting even better. She said "Your text last night was pressure and that would not get US anywhere."
