Originally Posted By: Coach
Listen to what she is telling you:

Quote:
"Do you have any idea what it is like to feel like you are absolutely everything to someone? It's suffocating. I've tried (many times) to express to you how hard it is for me to discern how I really feel from how I (and you) think I should feel. mindreading I can't see the forest for the trees. It's like you just wanted is that what you wanted or intended? to keep plowing ahead through a snowbank that is completely frozen and all you're doing is packing the snow harder. PRESSURE Sometimes you have to give it time to thaw before you can start again." What does that mean to her?


She is giving you what you want. She is dying for you to see it. (not mind reading - it's the cat whisperer in me)


She's frustrated. She feels that I want and am pressuring her to feel one way regardless of her needs. She needs time, space and the freedom to understand what she wants.

She's torn because she feels one way, and thinks she should feel differently.

She thinks that time will help her make her choices easier.