No 2x4s from me, man. I think it all depends on what your goals are. If your goal is to have a nice dinner, with someone you'd like to have it with, and you're able to see it as that then knock yourself out.
If you're doing it to try to woo your wife, I think (sadly, I might add) that that stuff doesn't work, and MWD I guess would call it "pursuing."
If you truly mean the "I could do this forever" thing, then I don't see the harm.
