My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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I sure hope my W "fixes" it. And soon, but I'll be patient. She's worth it.

When they are depressed you are the cause. That is the only thing I never validated.

I told her that she is responsible for her own happiness and getting rid of her depression is her own responsibility.

Never spoke about it again. She ordered some happy pills but never took a single one.

While she was miserable I did my detatching thing and became happy with myself. She took notice and got better.

That part worked.