Also, while problems of addictions are certainly very real and very painful when they are present, my experience has been that they are not in the majority of hurting marriages. It is an extreme case, which is ideally met by programs that specialize in such matters.
Arnie, are you counting affairs as being addictions? Because I do, and from reading these forums since I joined, there sure seems to be infidelity involved in a LOT of them.
