Last night went great Went to the gym and kicked some butt, taught the kids class and in general had fun. There were a few times that I wanted to leave early but I fought it off and it paid big dividends for me emotionally.
Interestingly I came home @10 and found her wasing dishes and not ready to go to club. My wife normally goes to bed at 830 or 9 pm if shes staying home. So I was surprised but ignored it. She then started talking to me as I was getting food saying she was too tired to go out. I told her I was sorry to hear that and got my food.
She started chatting me up some and it was pretty cordial but I cut it off early. I did mention I had a bruise from getting kicked in the head. She said I have a bruise to ( in relation to the incident last week) I didn't say anything initially. Finished my food and then came back told her I was sorry about hurting her and then just left. No discussion afterwards I just walked out and I didn't bring up she was hitting/scratching me when it happened.
Obviously her being tired was not the case though. She stayed up till 4am in the morning, I got up at 330 to get some melatonin because I has having a hard time sleeping. I ignore her in the office, didnt even look or say hi just went to medicine cabinet and then she calles me in office. She was still up but this time in full club gear, she said she was going to meet some people at an after party but decided not to.
Again odd... obviously something was up. She looked upset like she had been crying.
So I check the phone records ( bad I KNOW!!! )
She hadn't talked to him in almost 48 hours then texted him last night. They had some back and forth then he sent her a long message. After that she started blowing him up texts every 10 minutes for hours. For the first hour he barely responded then they started having some back and forth but his were short responses after like 4 or 5 texts from her. I thought that was an interesting pattern and drew some hope from the evenings events on top of the rest of the days.
She decided to stay home today and sleep. lol.. Ms. Motivation
So who knows what all that means but its interesting none the less. Trying to set my daily goals right now..
Thanks for taking the time to read this and respond I really appreciate everyones help.
Went to the gym and kicked some butt, taught the kids class and in general had fun. There were a few times that I wanted to leave early but I fought it off and it paid big dividends for me emotionally.
