I would like to see how she acts towards me tonite, body lang, etc. But If I do it will be a short visit as I have other things to do.
That's good, but I still think you shouldn't have jumped at the first offer (to meet tonite). After all, you are a BUSY MAN, with lots of interesting things to do! You don't want to make it look like you're sitting by the phone or e-mail like a puppy dog, waiting for her to want to see you.
But I'm just an amateur -- you may want to discount all of that.