Hey IMP, Had to change my user name because a neighbor of ours was in dire straights and I told her about this site in front of W. Yes the Co has been helpful and knows what her issue's were with us and the reason she was unhappy for awhile with our R. He advised me not to talk about R and D, I blew the D part but it seems to have affected her the most since I said I would never D her. Now he also advised since the attraction/connection to me had been lost to rebuild it and if we want to spend time together than to do it. I would like to see how she acts towards me tonite, body lang, etc. But If I do it will be a short visit as I have other things to do. And yes, is this still what I want? I wanted my W or is it just the fantasy of my W? Is she really worth it anymore?