Need some advice here. W has called me both mornings and wants to work things out since I told her it was over and I was seeing a L. She even asked me if I wanted to work it out? She said she is excited for to start over again with new communication and will still go to Co and wants to meet tonite now. Wants me to pick her up at her apt and go out for a bit. She kept saying she wants to go slowly but wants to be with me!
OK, I'll take a crack at this! :
"Wow, that's a big curveball, (Wife). I'm not sure how I feel about that right now. And tonite's not good for me at all -- I already have plans. Let me sleep on this, and we'll talk in the next couple of days. I won't do anything legally before then, but I just need to really think about what you've said, because I'm just not sure anymore."