I concur with Gut. I think you need to detach from your sitch and from the boards for a while and just enjoy what life has to offer. These boards are addictive and I remember trolling through a lot of posts in the hope of understanding my sitch better and offering up advice when I thought I saw someone else’s sitch much clearer than they did. Unfortunately, these boards can keep you from GALing and I personally felt what I would call “The Death Spiral” effects because you start becoming consumed with other posters sitch’s.
Pin you are a great guy and I appreciate your support during my most difficult times. So this my pay forward to you in that you need some time off and just GAL. Go fishing for a weekend, shopping whatever is your thing and not think of anything but enjoying what life offer!
