Also, last night I let her know that I had to be somewhere and couldn't hang around - but I didn't tell here where. It wasn't until after I said that when she made the comment in the bathroom about another girl. Nevermind that I was actually going to Novena prayers, but she didn't need to know that. It was so obvious to me later that night how she was trying to instigate an argument or get under my skin with the things she was saying. She would say something nice, even reminisce about when we first got together then the next minute say something that she knows would normally have gotten to me. Its almost like she is trying to find or create reasons now to validate why she left, b/c she doesn't know what she is running from anymore.

Then this morning she is sending me pictures and texting me. I replied once and backed off.

I've got to control how I feel during those moments and react accordingly so she continues to be confused as to why she left in the first place.


Me: 39
WAW: 32