Laying down the law worked!! Help!

[gutwrenching]

OK - breathe, slow down. Its ok to smile and pump your fist in the air in private...but go slow now.

First thing are what are your boundaries to work at a reconcilliation? Transpracency? Retroville? MC? IC? What?

Second, your first answer is I'm not sure, I have to think about it. However you would phrase it, so it is from you and she knows it. Maybe something along the lines of this is quite a shock to me, not was I was expecting and not where I was happily headed with my life, I don't know yet how I feel about this. I'll get back with you

And then make her call you back and bring it up again...

Don't go Melty Man
Don't go Melty Man
Don't go Melty Man