No you are not going against what JoAnn told you. Whenever you want can't mean that literally. If you had kids, you wouldn't talk about those things in front of your kids. There are times and places for grown up talks...if work isn't one of them for YOU, then that is a boundary. You are not shutting him off from talking, just ensuring it is done in a healthy environment
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11