No you are not going against what JoAnn told you. Whenever you want can't mean that literally. If you had kids, you wouldn't talk about those things in front of your kids. There are times and places for grown up talks...if work isn't one of them for YOU, then that is a boundary. You are not shutting him off from talking, just ensuring it is done in a healthy environment


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Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11