I intend to live forever - so far, so good

[awest1217]

With STBXW and the L, just based on my experience, it could very well be the L that is dragging his feet and not her (looking for the finalizing). My L said we could be done as soon as 2 months after I filed. It is now almost 3 months and I haven't talked to her about anything since 3 months ago. Nothing has been done partially due to H not getting info to L, and part of it is L not going after H to get it.

I just say this because STBXW may not be playing mind games with you, but the L might be, or the L is just lazy.