Thank you both. Quite frankly I think that their impending M is a joke. They obviously dont value M vows, as they both didnt value their own.
Gabbysmom, that is exactly how I feel. I dont want an immoral woman raising my children or having any hand in it whatsoever. I dont think she can have kids or doesnt want any, however likes to play mom every other weekend. I have always thought that her attraction to XH has been my kids, or maybe it was just her angle. Because she had to try really hard - 2 years to get him to leave me. And even then he cheated on her with me!!!!
As for XH, totally agree. I think my XH likes the idea of having a woman who totally idealises him and gives him all the attention he wants. (You cant do that with 2 kids, and a job) He also then like to play part time dad and look good to everyone.
All I can say is ....... I hope that they are very happy in their little fantasy world!!!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived