Hi TF!

Just scrolled back on your posts to see an update. I take it you`re still hanging on in there?

Have to say wonka`s thoughts on Mlc--the final stages-are very very interesting. The perspective of an MLCer. Describes a lot of what was/is going on in H`s head.

And, as Wonka says, the key is to Let Go.

So that`s where I am. Teethering on the brink of legally letting go-filed for separation Feb but the wheels of justice grind real slow in these parts, which is probably just as well, as H is still here.

Well, sometimes physically here and rarely here in his head!

Meanwhile I`m looking at my part in the marriage breakdown.Just for me. Because I am moving forward and do NOT want this to be a pattern in my relationships.

Heh, heh, it`s my MLC too y`know!