So let me get this right, its over move on,let her go ,get on with my life for me,yes?

So what do i do now, do i push for divorce, sell the family home i'm in, and get on with my life, or do I stay "married" and get on with things??

I don't want a divorce but all the advice is pushing me in that direction, let go, move on?

We have virtually no contact, so i may as well divorce her???