Originally Posted By: Blessed2BeADad
25yearsmic I just ordered both DB & DR books... They are to arrive on the 1st, which is when my W moves out. I live in WI and from what my attorney said getting primary placement in unlikely unless I can prove W is unfit, which I can't. According to my attorney shared placement and shared custody is typical.

Typical in most states..


My W already made it clear, she will not allow the children to sleep in my home if I don't agree.
Excuse me? She won't "agree"? Who cares? What does your L say?

The best it seems I can get is 50/50 and still have to pay her and she will actually have them more than 50%. I'm still paying her the same but I get the kids more than 50%

I don't understand these two sentences above.

. I am going to have her pay for all school lunches and her portion of the health and dental premium will be deducted from the monthly child support amount. I just want my kids as much as I can have them... Yes it would be nice to have them and not pay, but no way she's gonna agree to that. So I give up some cash and get my babies... To me it's worth it. Maybe I'm just blind idk.


If that's true, it makes total sense.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change