In the process

[newmama]

also I emailed city guy and said "how's it going? haven't heard from you in awhile!"

so we'll see if he replies.
IF HE DOESN'T after several days I am going to give a closure email saying something like

"please don't be afraid to let women know when you decide you aren't interested! We can handle it Best of luck on your dating adventures."

I am serious folks--people need to learn some email etiquette out there! I am coming to the conclusion that a lot of these guys are conflict avoidant and TERRIFIED of crushing the female ego or making us cry. Where did the big ego come from to make them think we are hanging on their every word and our world will crash if they aren't interested? Please! Sure we like them but we can find other fellas!

I am not really angry, just annoyed.