25yearsmic I just ordered both DB & DR books... They are to arrive on the 1st, which is when my W moves out. I live in WI and from what my attorney said getting primary placement in unlikely unless I can prove W is unfit, which I can't. According to my attorney shared placement and shared custody is typical. My W already made it clear, she will not allow the children to sleep in my home if I don't agree. The best it seems I can get is 50/50 and still have to pay her and she will actually have them more than 50%. I'm still paying her the same but I get the kids more than 50%. I am going to have her pay for all school lunches and her portion of the health and dental premium will be deducted from the monthly child support amount. I just want my kids as much as I can have them... Yes it would be nice to have them and not pay, but no way she's gonna agree to that. So I give up some cash and get my babies... To me it's worth it. Maybe I'm just blind idk.
