Okay, so I have been divorced for about 1.5 years now.
My XH wants to informally changed the terms of our divorce i.e. he wants to quit paying stuff because he cannot 'subsidize' my living in OUR house because he has to support 'his family'.
Gee, wish I had a lot of sympathy. The way I see it, he left 'our' house to start said family BEFORE we were divorced. Now he wants to change stuff because it is not convenient for him?????
I THINK NOT.
HOnestly, what is he thinking???? That I am going to give into his every whim?
I waited for him for 2 VERY LONG years and when I found out his gf (now his wife) had had the first kid I was done.
I don't feel that it is my problem that he cannot pay the bills he agreed to pay for in our divorce decree...
Has anyone else had this happen to them? Would love to hear what happened and how it turned out.
Good night Peeps! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
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