Ok, I need the brutal truth. See, it helps that you don't know me and can be objective. I can handle it.

I would really like to know, should I call my H and say I was wrong about what I said, how I reacted ?

I really good use some good advice....even the Life Coach I saw said my H was all about him and not considerate of me and my feelings. He was putting couples together for over 30 years. I listened to him.