Thanks guys.

My x mil is a huge enabler and I don't think this guy even knows what the two of them talk about. I don't think he knows about XW's EA at all but her Mom actually told her that God might have sent him(EA guy)to help her get through the divorce! I will go to x mil's funeral but that is all.

I am not completly sure how we are handling Halloween but I think XW wants to do it together. I am trying to think of ways I can leave her out of it. Any ideas? I need help, it makes me sick to be around her.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final