I did say something along those lines when I came back from the therapist. She said that what was not healthy for the kids was all the fights we were having before. That if I left she would have to find someone else to look after the kids when she is investing time on herself. Also now she is really worried about our finances (OM is bankrupt)so renting a place cost extra money that we will need for the big D. and to support the kids. So far the kids seem to be oblivious to this, If I move out, at least my son will start to figure out what is going on..
Me 39 W 37 S 5 D 2.75 Married 12 years Together 14 years Bomb Dropped 08/16/10
