Now you're talking. He makes his bed, let him lay in it. You are not required to pull down the covers for him. No leg work on your part. Also, don't be bullied into rushing into anything. Take your time, pick out your lawyer, let him see the papers. In my state, you have to respond within 20 days. I don't know about yours.
Time is on our side. Always has been. We just need the patience to take our time on our decisions.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011