H's MLC - he is still lost but I found myself

[Mila]

SA, Punkin, Eric & GAG thank you for your continues support...I love you all

Haven't been here for a few days, hope everyone is fine...will catch up with all the treads ASAP

....yes tons of things on my plate...looking for a job, talking to a lawyer, de-cluttering the house, slaving on the garden (hate leaves)...working in the business....my list is very long these days....pretty stressed out...

H had a "visitor" over the weekend...D reported that the woman had the guts to come to her place of work and started up a conversation with her...."It's so good to see you again xxxxx"...D said "it was not good to see her" that it was weird...she didn't want to talk to her.

The "romance" seems to be going strong... at least that's the face they put on...however last week H told me that he's been seeing a counselor "had to talk to someone"...were his words. Today I had a meeting with H....he doesn't look well...puffed up
eyes...started crying as soon as we sat down, I didn't even say anything yet....had to excuse himself and leave for a few minutes to compose himself...said that he is just tired...and that he doesn't know why he is like that....he had a really hard time holding it together for the 20 minutes that we had talked.....all is not well in H's land.....

I'm trying to GAL as much as time allows...I go out regularly...it helps to de-stress...even going to a dress-up Halloween party lol

And I have a couple of nice guys texting and emailing me...and what the heck, I'm going out for dinner with one of them...just as friends....to talk about our MLC spouses lol. But I must say I'm starting to like the other guy quite a bit....does that tell me that I'm too detached now?

hugs everyone