Always and Forever??????

[glamgirl]

Sorry IB that you find yourself on the divorce path. You can't change or stop what your h is doing. It will help if you can accept that.

This is a very tough journey to be on. We are tested and pushed to the limits. We find ourselves questioning who is this person we stood before God and married.

The best advice I can give you, is to focus on IB. You are in complete control of who you are and what you do.

Really the best way through this is to give your h the space to think and grow. I know that it is very difficult to accept that, but there really is NO other answer.

Regardless of D, S, or whatever situation is presented to you in life, nobody can take away who you are and what you stand for. Nobody, not even your h.

You will find that you will be ok with however your situation ends.

I hope you can find some peace with your current situation and please remember this is all about your h and what HE needs to do.