Leave out the "hurt" crap.

"It's not appropriate to discuss our personal problems at work or use the work mail, email, and so on to do so.".

And it's NOT. In fact, my company makes you sign an agreement that includes that sort of thing in what is not good conduct.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
-=Soon to be banned=-