Secondly, as I stated up front, there is no question anyone posting here is using their valuable time to help and support. That is beyond dispute.
Third, you're right, there is by definition some guess work involved in this kind of situation. Yet, as long as you understand this, sometimes it's all you have to go on. And yet, sometimes certain behaviors by one person do follow proactive strategies used by the other.
Finally, to disagree (you'll also notice statements of agreement, too) in whole or part does not mean I disrespect.
