First of all, I never travel without my bat - Just sayin'. LOL!
Listen, I know how much it sucks taking the high road. I do. I've been taking it a long time.
Here's the thing. At the end of the day, I get to look in the mirror and not have one ounce of regret. I get to feel good about me. And that's what matters.
I know this is so hard for your children. I do. They are young and it just sucks all the way around.
But you cant unring the bell. It's done. And you can try to talk to your h, but, I can almost guarantee you that he wont hear a freakin thing you're saying.
He is going to be hearing - she is just jealous. She thinks she know everything, I dont have to listen to her. I can do what I want, blah, blah, blah.
But, if you feel you need to say something, then it is the right thing to wait until you are no longer so angry.
In the meantime, you do what you need to do with your children.
And think about, is she kind and nice to your kids? I hope so.
As for the rest, she will never, ever be you. Uh uh. No way. There is only one mommy. Doesnt matter if she is freakin Tinkerbell. There is only you. I promise you that.
