I do think the single life will be tough for her regardless. On her off days she will have all 4 kids, so unless she gets a sitter, which I suspect she will, the possible OM won't be too interested in hangin out. The only way to get time for a date is to go out after 1130pm, but she'll have to pickup kids at 7am... Still tough to find someone interested in that setup.

The only way to get the kids is to accept the deal... The alternative is to still pay her the same amount and then lose time with kids by having to drop them off before bed so a sitter can put them to bed at her new place (probably without the kiss and affection I provide). It's best for the kids if I accept the offer... It's best for me too. I don't think it matters what happens, she will still be looking to live that single life, bit this way my kids won't be in her path.

Tonight I'm gonna stay away from her by cleaning up the basement, now that her stuff is outa there.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010