Thanks Future.

You're right, that is something to consider that it's something in her that is broken. I've taken this time to take a good look on the mirror at myself. I was a good H. I still believe this all came down to the financial issues. Since my W has never told me why she left I will have to assume it's because of the financial stuff. To me that's really sad...for her to leave and run because of money. How shallow is that? I have really opened my eyes to how my W has handled (or should I say not handled) things. She's not a strong person.

I at least feel good that I believe I did all I could do to save this M. I believe I handled this with honor and integrity. I do hope that one day my W realizes who she is and what she wants in life. I hope that she improves on the things she needs to work on. I think she has a lot of growing up to do. Not to sound condescending but she does need to work on some things on her end too. Perhaps the D will be what she needs to be free and clear her mind. Perhpas she will wake-up one day to realize what she threw away. She was a good person but has changed so much over the past year. Almost like she's trying to be someone she's not...fake.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch